Comments on: What Draws People To You?

By: Jen

Jen — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 02:19:02 +0000

It’s tough for me to see right now because I’ve had such a crappy day and been more than a bit b*tchy, but on another day, I’d say that people are drawn to my sense of humor, my compassion, and my drive. Right now, I’m feeling drawn to a bottle of wine and a bubble bath…

By: Another Chris

Another Chris — Tue, 12 Feb 2008 00:09:37 +0000

This is an amazing post Zandria, and I bet one of the best-ever at BlogHer…my own answers would be too complicated to go into here….some negatives can be seen by others as a positive (and I don’t mean, for example, guys who act all sulky and mysterious, thinking women find that attractive, that crap is too easy, and immature)…oh screw it, here are a few! :) I’m loyal…and also odd (my friends all love my oddness)…and I mean intriguing odd, not weird-odd. My friends say they’ve never met anyone who thinks, or lives as I do. I’m generous too, as you are, and one of my greatest joys in Life is tracking down that one, special gift that no-one-else-would-bother-to-find, for my best friends. And I would do anything for my friends, and they know this, and certainly having someone love you and be absolutely devoted to your well-being doesn’t drive people away!! :) Yes, now…I stop!! Again, great post, Z, C

By: Stephanie Quilao

Stephanie Quilao — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 19:53:23 +0000

What I like about your perspective on this post is that it was magnetic. Instead of “what do you think people like about you” it was “What draws people to you.” The latter gets you thinking more powerfully about yourself. I love it! This just inspired a post idea ;-)

By: Marie D.

Marie D. — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 17:55:01 +0000

Well I was thinking about that lately and what comes to my mind are these words from Madeleine Peyroux’song: “I don’t know what love is, I am selfish and lazy, and when I get scared, I can act like I’m crazy”.
But ok, I have to look at the bright side of things, I am smart and funny and sociable, and like Angela I am not afraid to start dancing or singing :-)

By: The Maiden Metallurgist

The Maiden Metallurgist — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 16:19:17 +0000

I am outrageous and funny and very straightforward. I’m a lot of fun and very aware of people around me having fun too. I’m a fierce and loyal friend. Though I have impeccable manners I’m also very at east with my intimate friends and comfortable throwing decorum right out the window.

Thanks for asking, sometimes we need to be reminded to think so highly of ourselves.

By: Angela

Angela — Mon, 11 Feb 2008 14:42:58 +0000

Other people are drawn to my passion. And my quirkiness. And the fact that I’m not afraid to start dancing or singing in any place, for any reason.

That sad, I will be celebrating Singles Awareness Day on Thursday.