Comments on: Things People Have Said To Me http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/ Sun, 05 Sep 2010 17:58:23 -0400 http://wordpress.org/?v=2.8.4 hourly 1 By: Larissa http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19523 Larissa Mon, 12 May 2008 22:52:55 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19523 I've had #2 said to me a few times. Current friends have told me that their first impression of me was that I was intimidating. I’ve had #2 said to me a few times. Current friends have told me that their first impression of me was that I was intimidating.

]]> By: dadshouseblog http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19496 dadshouseblog Mon, 12 May 2008 02:39:09 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19496 Can I just say, for the record, "4)". As for the guy at the gym who you jumped in front of, not to take anything away from how he looked, I'm guessing he was the one who attached the "hot" adjective to you. I know I would. :-) (Found you through http://mssinglemama.com) Can I just say, for the record, “4)”.

As for the guy at the gym who you jumped in front of, not to take anything away from how he looked, I’m guessing he was the one who attached the “hot” adjective to you.

I know I would. :-)

(Found you through http://mssinglemama.com)

]]> By: Lisa J http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19472 Lisa J Sun, 11 May 2008 15:06:33 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19472 I'm down with Wendy! We've been together for 14 years and we're definitely in the "I need space to sleep!" stage. For me, it's not so much about the cuddling, but knowing someone's there at the end of the day. 3) “You sound like the trainer at my gym.” I get that sometimes, but then the same people come to me for "Free" advice. I’m down with Wendy! We’ve been together for 14 years and we’re definitely in the “I need space to sleep!” stage. For me, it’s not so much about the cuddling, but knowing someone’s there at the end of the day.

3) “You sound like the trainer at my gym.”
I get that sometimes, but then the same people come to me for “Free” advice.

]]> By: Amy http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19442 Amy Fri, 09 May 2008 20:21:03 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19442 You have at least one more non-cuddling reader here. I have a queen bed and that's not even enough space for me when my man's there. A king size bed is great, though--you don't even have to know someone else is in there with you! Although I like the emotional aspect, I can't fall asleep if someone else is touching me. You have at least one more non-cuddling reader here. I have a queen bed and that’s not even enough space for me when my man’s there. A king size bed is great, though–you don’t even have to know someone else is in there with you! Although I like the emotional aspect, I can’t fall asleep if someone else is touching me.

]]> By: Wendy http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19421 Wendy Fri, 09 May 2008 10:18:31 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19421 People are odd. I've been married for 15 years/2 years before that we were together. Not that I don't like to cuddle, but 17 years with only a handful of nights to really stretch out? Well, I'd love some space! People are odd.
I’ve been married for 15 years/2 years before that we were together. Not that I don’t like to cuddle, but 17 years with only a handful of nights to really stretch out? Well, I’d love some space!

]]> By: Stephanie Quilao http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19419 Stephanie Quilao Fri, 09 May 2008 08:17:10 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19419 I'm totally with you on #4. I soooo miss having someone to sleep with which I know is adding to my insomnia. I had someone to sleep with for over 3 years and it was nice. When I was doing the online dating thing, I'd get, "Oh, you look better in person." I used to think, "Does that mean you think I looked no so better in pictures?" I’m totally with you on #4. I soooo miss having someone to sleep with which I know is adding to my insomnia. I had someone to sleep with for over 3 years and it was nice.

When I was doing the online dating thing, I’d get, “Oh, you look better in person.” I used to think, “Does that mean you think I looked no so better in pictures?”

]]> By: Emelita http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19415 Emelita Fri, 09 May 2008 02:27:11 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19415 “Zandria, when I first met you I didn’t get the impression that you’d be very nice. But now I think you’re a very nice person.” OMG! I don't think I would ever say something like this to someone, even if I was thinking it. Another thing I always get is... "You look nice today" It kind of makes me think like I don't try to look nice everyday at work. Oh well! This is my first time on this site and you have a very pretty name and website! I'll be sure to bookmark you and come visit again! Have a great day. “Zandria, when I first met you I didn’t get the impression that you’d be very nice. But now I think you’re a very nice person.”

OMG! I don’t think I would ever say something like this to someone, even if I was thinking it. Another thing I always get is…

“You look nice today”

It kind of makes me think like I don’t try to look nice everyday at work. Oh well! This is my first time on this site and you have a very pretty name and website! I’ll be sure to bookmark you and come visit again! Have a great day.

]]> By: Zandria http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19412 Zandria Fri, 09 May 2008 01:31:05 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19412 I never knew I had so many non-cuddling readers! I think it's nice to fall asleep with your head on someone's arm, or one of your limbs draped over someone's else limbs. I never knew I had so many non-cuddling readers! I think it’s nice to fall asleep with your head on someone’s arm, or one of your limbs draped over someone’s else limbs.

]]> By: Kat http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19409 Kat Thu, 08 May 2008 21:22:41 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19409 I miss when my boyfriend is out of town, mostly for the few minutes before we are actually asleep. We both have an understanding that once it's time to "dodo" we want to be apart, which for me is like sleeping by myself, but I'm not a spread eagle type sleeper. :D I don't know if it's just me, but I can't cuddle sleep in a bed, but I can do the cuddle couch nap no problem. I miss when my boyfriend is out of town, mostly for the few minutes before we are actually asleep. We both have an understanding that once it’s time to “dodo” we want to be apart, which for me is like sleeping by myself, but I’m not a spread eagle type sleeper. :D I don’t know if it’s just me, but I can’t cuddle sleep in a bed, but I can do the cuddle couch nap no problem.

]]> By: "classic" jen http://www.zandria.us/archives/main/2008/05/08/things-people-have-said-to-me/comment-page-1/#comment-19406 "classic" jen Thu, 08 May 2008 20:03:20 +0000 http://www.zandria.us/?p=1318#comment-19406 (i'm going by "classic" jen to differentiate myself - i used to be the only jen that regularly commented here so i think it's appropriate.) i think sharing a bed is the worst thing about being in a relationship. if i had (1) consent from my mate (i currently don't); (2) a free bed that is as comfortable as my current bed (because i'm too cheap to buy a second bed); and (3) enough room for two beds (i currently don't), i'd be all over the Ricky-and-Lucy-Ricardo-two-bed-thing in a minute. (i’m going by “classic” jen to differentiate myself – i used to be the only jen that regularly commented here so i think it’s appropriate.)

i think sharing a bed is the worst thing about being in a relationship. if i had (1) consent from my mate (i currently don’t); (2) a free bed that is as comfortable as my current bed (because i’m too cheap to buy a second bed); and (3) enough room for two beds (i currently don’t), i’d be all over the Ricky-and-Lucy-Ricardo-two-bed-thing in a minute.

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