So It Begins: My Final Year As a 20-something

Today is my 29th birthday.

I started this blog when I was 22. Back then, there were several bloggers I read who were in their late 20s, and I remember thinking that they weren’t old — but they were older than me, and at times I wondered what my life would be like when I reached 29.

Well, here I am. I’m certainly different than I was seven years ago, and for that I am thankful. There are a few things I wish I would have accomplished by now that I haven’t, but truthfully, for the most part, I’m happy with who I am.

This is what being 29 means to me:

I like where I live. I’m healthy. I have great friends and family. I’m debt-free. I’m not stressed-out. I own a car, and I have fun gadgets, like a laptop and an iPhone.

I went to New York City a few weeks ago, and Jacksonville before that. I’ll be flying to Chicago next month to attend my third BlogHer conference. I’m planning my first-ever trip to Idaho and Montana to visit my aunt and check out some national parks.

I have over three weeks of vacation time saved up at work that need to be used. This fall, I’ll be a bridesmaid in my little sister’s wedding. I’ve also been known to to whip up a mean batch of red velvet cupcakes from scratch.

Those things sound pretty great to me. I feel like my life is better now than it was when I was 22, and I hope it continues to get better.

I’m pretty positive it will.

46 Comments



  1. Happy Birthday Zan!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 6:40 am #
  2. Happy Birthday, Zandria!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 6:43 am #
  3. Happy BIRTHDAY!!!!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 6:48 am #
  4. Happy happy bday, Zan!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 7:26 am #
  5. Happy B-Day! Enjoy your last year of your twenties!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 7:43 am #
  6. Happy birthday, Zan! I hope you have fun plans in store!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:01 am #
  7. Happy birthday!

    classic jen
    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:09 am #
  8. Happy Birthday!!! I completely agree that (my) life is better now than at 22. And I’m sure it just gets better and better. :-)

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:09 am #
  9. As a 22 year old in the process of figuring herself out, this gives me hope.

    Happy Birthday, Zandria.

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:19 am #
  10. Happy Birthday Zandria! You’re LIVING your life – and that right there is pretty sweet and wonderful.

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:40 am #
  11. happy birthday! hope you have a fun day!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:47 am #
  12. Have a fabulous birthday! :)

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:49 am #
  13. It does sound like a nice life. Continue to enjoy it, and have a happy birthday.

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 9:14 am #
  14. Happy birthday, Zan! Or “Grattis pÃ¥ födelsedagen” as I’d say in Swedish!

    It makes me happy to see that you are happy with you life as it is. And that you wouldn’t change it for being 22 again. And I’m sure your life will only get better. :)

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 9:27 am #
  15. Happy birthday Zandria!!! Hope you have a great day

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 9:28 am #
  16. Happy birthday! Yes, 29 was much better than 22. Enjoy it!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 9:55 am #
  17. Happy Birthday! Have fun tonight!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 10:20 am #
  18. Happy birthday! It sounds like you have grown, matured, and view life differently–all those things your parents hope for ;-)

    Hope you have a fun day celebrating!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 10:26 am #
  19. Happy Birthday Zan..wishing you many more years of happiness and prosperity, peace and love

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 10:30 am #
  20. 29 today! I really look forward to being in my 30’s. I’m halfway through my 20’s now – just turned 26 – and I’m finding that every year I love more than the last. I’d never want to be 21 again.

    Happy birthday. I’m glad you have such a positive outlook on getting older. I wish I saw more people say ‘yay!’ than ‘OMG I’m so old’.

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 10:53 am #
  21. Happy Birthday! I’m glad that your happier or more fullfilled now than when you were 22!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 11:13 am #
  22. Life sounds pretty great!

    Happy Birthday. :)

    Can’t wait until BlogHer, hooray!!!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 11:18 am #
  23. yay! HAPPY BIRTHDAY!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 11:19 am #
  24. Happy birthday, Zan! Will you be visiting Yellowstone?

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 11:38 am #
  25. Happy Birthday! It sounds like you’re really LIVING your life.

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 12:33 pm #
  26. Happy birthday zan!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 12:43 pm #
  27. Happy Birthday! I love your attitude, what a healthy way of thinking!

    I look forward to seeing you again next month in Chicago.

    (PS: today is my hubby’s bday too, so it is definitely a good day!) :)

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 1:36 pm #
  28. Happy Birthday!! Hope your day is full of happy things!!!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 1:51 pm #
  29. Happy Birthday, Zan! With your fabulous positive attitude your future will be as terrific as your present.

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 1:54 pm #
  30. Happy Birthday Zandria!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 2:32 pm #
  31. Happy birthday, Kiddo! Many happy more!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 2:48 pm #
  32. One thing I’ve noticed about you is as follows; I only see you from time to time. Each time I do, you’re more attractive both in terms of appearance and personality. You’re the rare woman that improves with age.

    Hau’oli la hanau!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 4:04 pm #
  33. “Go, cat, go!”

    (from BS Shoes)

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 4:49 pm #
  34. Happy birthday Zandria!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 5:36 pm #
  35. HAPPY BIRTHDAY!!! :)

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 7:09 pm #
  36. Dear Zandria. Happy birthday. May the last year of your 30s be absolutely fantastic!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 7:13 pm #
  37. Happy Birthday!!
    ~K

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 7:23 pm #
  38. I’ll be turning 30 in a few months so I can definitely relate. You’re doing very well! Debt-free; I really wish I could say the same for myself :)

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 8:15 pm #
  39. Hope you have/had a great birthday!

    Posted June 9, 2009 at 10:07 pm #
  40. Happy Birthday! I don’t know what part of Montana you’ll visit, but the part I’ve been to is absolutely beautiful. Hope you have a great year!

    Posted June 10, 2009 at 6:18 am #
  41. (Belated) Happy Birthday!

    Posted June 10, 2009 at 10:50 am #
  42. happy birthday! And thanks for the reminder — I too am grateful for my life and how great it is but sometimes forget the good stuff in all the little stresses.

    Posted June 10, 2009 at 3:04 pm #
  43. hope you had a most fabulous birthday!!

    Posted June 10, 2009 at 3:09 pm #
  44. Happy Birthday again!! I’m glad you had a wonderful day and you being happy makes me happy! :)

    Posted June 10, 2009 at 6:07 pm #
  45. A late happy birthday to you! Enjoy 29, but I think your 30s are better so don’t worry!

    Posted June 12, 2009 at 6:51 am #
  46. What a nice comment from Defense Engineer.

    Love you my old sissy!

    Posted July 2, 2009 at 9:30 pm #

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